Travels of a Scenic Artist and Scholar – On the Road Again.

Copyright © 2026 by Wendy Waszut-Barrett

I am finally returning to my regular posts. In the past year, my research, writing, and personal painting projects fell by the wayside. All the while, work continued at a frantic pace. For much of October I was on the road, driving almost 3600 miles to deliver a moving panorama, teach painting classes, and given a public presentation at Thalian Hall in Wilmington, NC. I drove from Minneapolis to the southeastern United States and back again.

Kure Beach, North Carolina, Oct. 19,. 2026.

Travel has always been my sanctuary. Cross country road trips as a child were fun and full of adventure. As a newborn, I first managed to roll over in my parent’s old Chevrolet truck while stopped at the Grand Canyon. My mother told the story of how my dad had finally convinced her to leave me in the car for just a few minutes, long enough to enjoy the view. In that very short period of time, I rolled all the way over and onto the car floor. Family vacations took place from Key West, Florida, to the Pacific Northwest. Some of my favorite memories are building sandcastles with my dad and waking up early to look for shells with my mom.

Building sandcastles with my dad at Padre Island, Texas.
Feeding the seagulls with my dad in Galveston, Texas.

Being on the road conjures up many happy memories of camping in the national parks, eating peanut butter on crackers in the car, and making Spam sandwiches in roadside rest areas. My parents made every trip memorable, as well as educational. My current journey from Minneapolis to Wilmington, has helped me reflect on how lucky I was to travel so much with my parents. It also rekindled my flame to both write and paint.

Here is a recap of a some major events since last December. While documenting the Scottish Rite scenery collections in Long Beach and Oakland, California last, I began the preservation of the scenery collection at the SOKOL hall in St. Paul, Minnesota, by December 2025. Phase 1 consisted of the repair, paint consolidation, and in-painting of damaged areas on roll drops and woods wings painted by Victor Hubal, Sr.

One of the scenes at the Sokol Hall in St. Paul, Minnesota. Photograph from Dec. 3, 2025.

At the beginning of 2026, I repaired a moving panorama, designed an opera, and traveled to Iowa. The panorama project began a decade ago at a League of Historic American Theatres conference, coming to fruition this month. Panorama Palooza included the premier of Alluvial River, a musical production to feature the panorama. I transported the repaired panorama and newly painted cut surround to the Thalian Hall in Wilmington, North Carolina, beginning my trip on Oct. 11.

Panorama awaiting preservation, January, 2026. While folded, the panorama sat in a small puddle of water, hence the extensive damage every three feet.
One of the repaired areas on the panorama. Photograph from Jan. 28, 2026.
One of the repaired areas on the panorama. Photograph from Feb. 2, 2026.
Panorama and cut surround during tech week at Thalian Hall in Wilmington, NC.

This 8′ x 104′ painting was designed by Lance Brockman, who painted it with his former student Janet Ryger. Created for the University of Minnesota Centennial Showboat in 1988, it depicted a trip down the Mississippi River, starting at the headwaters in Itasca, Minnesota.

Janet Ryger working on the panorama in 1988.

I also began a new collaboration with Fair Field Productions for an upcoming documentary “Uncommon Ground: Stories from Fairfield’s Creative Past.” My posts about Sosman & Landis caught the attention of producer Dick DeAngelis, prompting the inclusion of Sosman & Landis into the work. Joe Sosman delivered scenery to Fairfield’s Opera House in 1875, the same year that he met Perry Landis who also had deep ties to the town. In mid-February I was interviewed by a film crew at the Theatre Museum in Mt. Pleasant, Iowa. While on site, we also documented several Sosman & Landis flats tucked away in a storage area and started several other projects.

Backside of a wood wing uncovered at the Theatre Museum of Repertoire Americana on Feb. 25, 2026.

On my return from Iowa, I stopped by Cedar Rapids to visit the Masonic Library and document scenery at the Scottish Rite Theater.

The Scottish Rite stage in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. Photographed on Feb 27, 2026. The scenery collection was delivered by William Lemle, representing the National Theatre Supply Co.
Studio stencil on the back of a scene at the Cedar Rapids Scottish Rite.

Production meetings for L’Orfeo (Haymarket Opera Company, Chicago) also commenced early in the year; my scenic design completed in April, between the passing of my mother and father. The show opened last month.

My model for Thrace scene in the Haymarket Opera Co. production of “L’Orfeo.”

Just prior to my father’s passing, I completed a few dozen acrylic paintings. Here are a few of my favorites.

Galveston Beach. 10″ x 20″ acrylic painting by Wendy Waszut-Barrett. Gifted to my parents in 2026.
Galveston Beach. 10″ x 20″ acrylic painting by Wendy Waszut-Barrett. Gifted to my parents in 2026.
Yellowstone National Park. 10″ x 20″ acrylic painting by Wendy Waszut-Barrett. Gifted to my parents in 2026.
My backyard. 10″ x 20″ acrylic painting by Wendy Waszut-Barrett. Gifted to my parents in 2026.

My work included landscape for my parents and family, as well two concept pieces that depicted the drop curtain for King’s Theatre in Edinburgh, Scotland, based on historic descriptions researched by Mike Hume. He added the images to his existing photos for a presentation.

My two paintings depicting the original act drop at the King’s Theatre, Edinburgh, Scotland based on historic descriptions. Photograph from March 9, 2026.
Mike Hume inserted my painting into an existing photograph for his presentation at King’s Theatre, Edinburgh, Scotland.
Mike Hume inserted my painting into an existing photograph for his presentation at King’s Theatre, Edinburgh, Scotland.

I continued several personal painting projects, doing multiple versions of the same scene. One of my projects included a series of color studies that culminated into a 30” x 40” acrylic painting featuring the January 28 SOS demonstration at Lake Bde Maka Ska in Minneapolis, Minnesota, during the ICE occupation.

My color studies of the Jan. 28, 2026, demonstration in Minneapolis, MN. Sizes range from 8″x10″ to 10″x20″.
Community Gathering #1. Acrylic painting by Wendy Waszut-Barrett. 30″ x 40″.

That was the last painting project that I was able to share with my father before he passed away on March 15. Although planned for submission in the Minnesota State Fair, it was the inspiration for an upcoming Crescendo Community Chorus event in April.

I painted a companion piece for art exhibit that was to be held in conjunction with the upcoming Crescendo Community Chorus event that spring.

Community Gathering #2 based on Kaleidoscope of Love event during ICE occupation. Acrylic painting by Wendy Waszut-Barrett. 30″ x 40″.

This was the first piece that I painted after the passing of my father. I felt hollow upon its completion. Although it was everything that I hoped it would be, but the joy was gone. The last remnants of my creativity as poured into my father’s memorial display and celebration of life video.

My dad’s Celebration of Life service on March 24, 2026.
My dad’s burial on March 24, 2026.

The art bug that had fueled inspiration since childhood slipped away from me. My desire to paint evaporated, yet there were still painting projects to do. Personal projects ceased; nothing seemed worth painting anymore. This should have been the time that I just stopped working to help my mother cope with daily activities, but our relationship had become strained. Her health was rapidly deteriorating; the bout with sepsis, just prior to my dad’s passing, had not been resolved when they discharged her early from the hospital to see my dad’s body.

My mother passed away on May 4, only 50 days and seven minutes after my father.

Andrew and Aaron playing music for my mom the week before she passed. Her favorite hymn was “In the Garden.”

There was little that I could do, and I knew that my next task would be the dismantling of my childhood home; the house they built in 1960. The house each died in while holding my hand.

My parents (left and right), with my dad’s sister and niece (center). They are standing in front of their house when it was being built in 1960. My dad designed the house and my grandfather, John H. Kohnen, was the general contractor. My mom contributed too as she had helped my grandpa with construction since a child.

The day after my mom passed away, I painted panels for the May 14 Crescendo Community Concert that were hung on either side of the choir. I felt so helpless and needed some task to do. Thank goodness my next project deadline was May 12 – as it forced me to think about something else other than the loss.

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Crescendo Community Chorus panels started and completed on the paint frame the days after my mother’s passing. Photograph from May 5, 2026.
Panels on display at the Crescendo Community Chorus performance “Meeting This Moment.”

In conjunction with music concert was my first solo art show. On exhibition were a few dozen acrylic paintings, now part of the Waszut Family Trust. These were artworks that I had gifted to my parents over the years, the majority being created between 2022 and 2026. Each depicted a favorite vacation spot, my attempt to bring a little beauty into their lives after they became homebound. Many were included in my “Painting in 2022” blog post. Just before my dad’s passing, many of these 10” x 20” acrylic paintings had shifted to the room where my father lay in his hospital bed. He directed the placement of each one. In front of hime were my backyard in winter, Galveston Beach in Texas, their lake cabin view, and my recent SOS painting.

Photograph from March 9, 2026, with my paintings surrounding the room where my dad lay. Big oil painting of mountains (to the left of the TV) was painted by my dad.

Despite being overwhelmed with their estate, I began planning for the summer; revisiting commitments that I made in the past year and those that had been put on hold. I was scheduled to attend an international theatre conference at the beginning of June. Since my dad’s passing, I had been hesitant to leave, waffling between going and canceling the trip for well over two months. It took some extensive convincing by good friends and family for me to commit to the trip. On May 28, I flew to Stockholm, Sweden, to attend “Conference by Candlelight.” I had the privilege of not only visiting three historic theatres (Drottningholm, Confidencen, and Gripsholm), but also Per Edstrom’s residence for pre-conference activities. The trip gave me a moment’s respite before returning to work and the dismantling of my childhood home. There will be several posts about this in the future, but here are a few pictures for now.

Lighting workshop on June 2, 2026, with Per Edstrom and Chris Van Goethem on stage of the experimental theatre.
Candlelight demonstration on June 2, 2026, at Per Edstrom’s farm.
Gaslight demonstration at Per Edstrom’s farm. June 2, 2026.
Candlelight demonstration at Confidencen, also known as Ulriksdal Palace Theatre in Sweden.

In the end, my summer and early fall became a blur while working on scenery for Haymarket Opera Company’s L’Orfeo (Chicago) and Thalian Hall’s Panorama Palooza (Wilmington, NC). For the moving panorama project, I manufactured a blank panorama to use while building the stage machinery (rollers). The project also included painting a cut drop to conceal the machinery, preparing three onsite art classes, and a public presentation.

Early August, we held a memorial service for my mother, holding a celebration of life at the  Pillager Community Center, near their cabin. We buried some ashes and set a memorial stone.

Memorial stone for my parents at their cabin,

Our thought was that many of their remaining friends could no longer travel, so we would bring the service to them. Again, my creativity was challenged while I compiled her memorial video and assembled display boards. This was so much harder to do than my Father’s Celebration of Life video and memorial display boards in March. With both of them gone I was filled with regret, constantly questioning both past and present decisions.

We also began tackle some deferred maintenance at the cabin, rebuilding two of the four sidewalls. The previous summer we had reroofed everything. By “we” I mean these were family projects and not hired out. Despite the scope of the project, there was always time to enjoy the view, sail a bit, and eat freshly caught fish.

Andrew working on the northern wall of the cabin after completing the southern wall.
Sunrise at the cabin on August 19, 2026.

My mid August, I was constantly painting. In hindsight, keeping busy was key to my sanity. I was not only working on scenery for the upcoming Haymarket Opera Company Production, but also documenting the distemper painting process for the Fair Field Production Co. project.

10′ x 12′ distemper painting created on August 27, 2026. This was the same day as my parents’ wedding anniversary. Had they not both passed that spring, it would have been 66 years.
Painted detail.

September became ridiculously busy as I attended the Western Steam Threshers Reunion in Rollag, MN, Labor Day weekend, opened L’Orfeo in Chicago mid-September, and began painting the panorama surround for Thalian Hall at the beginning of October.

My son performing in the Threshermans’ Memorial Building at the Western Minnesota Steam Threshers Reunion. My husband is playing trombone in this photograph.
From left to right: Elliot Sanders, Will Thorpe, and Aaron Barrett making music in the Mercantile Building at the Western Minnesota Steam Threshers’ Reunion on September 5, 2026.
Thrace setting for Haymarket opera Co. during tech at the Jarvis Opera Hall, DePaul University, Chicago. Photograph from Sept. 19, 2026.
Panorama surround (cut drop) on the paint frame, Oct. 7, 2026.

On October 11, I began driving toward Wilmington, NC, with the panorama and cut drop.

Panorama and cut drop loaded in my car for the cross country trip!

To be continued…

Remembering My First History Teacher

Copyright © 2026 by Wendy Rae Waszut-Barrett

My parents passed away within fifty days and seven minutes of each other this spring. I am wrestling with this monumental loss, recognizing that I am the sole keeper of my childhood memories.

Mom with Pip. My mom’s first love was cats. Every yellow farm cat that she raised was named Bonnie. The only exception was a little grey cat named Buttons.

My parents were always there for me, whether it was to celebrate a victory  or mourn a loss. They modeled constant support of family, with family encompassing more than their blood relations. There are hundreds of fortunate individuals whom they adopted throughout their life.

My parents were there for EVERY childhood event, academic achievement, musical performance and theatre production. This dedication continued with the two grandchildren, even when they lived an hour or more away. When faced with mobility issues and chronic pain, my mom insisted that they would continue to attend events as long as they could, repeatedly saying, “There will be a time when we can’t.” The last performance that they attended together was for our son’s first high school musical, Something Rotten. There they were in the front row, beaming with pride at another musical victory.

My parents in the front row waiting for the show to start, March 2025.
After the show with Aaron, beaming with pride.

By last fall, they were homebound. My mom seldom left my dad’s side,  fearing that she would lose him if she left; she was right. I think that my dad waited for her departure, understanding that she would not let him go. It was only my dad who could convince my mom to go to the ER on March 12. Three days after she was admitted to the hospital for sepsis, my dad passed away. The hardest thing that I have ever done was telling my mom that my dad had died.

My last post honored Ray Waszut as my first art teacher. I never thought that my next post would be about my mom. It is only fitting that I remember Betty Lou B. (Kohnen) Waszut as my first history teacher. She was the first person to make the past come alive, instilling in me an appreciation for those who came before me.

My mom teaching in the 1950s..
The cake that my mom’s students gave her in 1967. She was teaching at Brooklyn Center High School before I was born.

We spent many of our family vacations wandering around cemeteries, visiting historic sites, and exploring national parks. She made exploring the past so much fun that it became my passion. Her skillset as a teacher was remarkable. Unending patience and a great sense of humor. Even at the end, she was still explaining to her grandchildren that the key to teaching was being able to laugh. Over the years she taught music, math, social studies and American History. I could not have asked for a better tutor, as my mom taught me how to study; showing me the most efficient way to do research, take notes, organize information, and study for exams. She was always there as a resource, whether it was to help me with math or proofread a paper.

We traveled a lot as a family over the years, with each trip becoming an opportunity to learn something new about the past. Our last family trip in 2021 was out west, revisiting favorite locations and national parks. A highlight was looking for petroglyphs near Dubois, Wyoming, and learning about early inhabitants to the area. We continued our education at the National Bighorn Sheep Center that day.

My parents at the National Bighorn Sheep Center in Dubois, Wyoming, 2021.

Their love of travel started in the 1960s, meeting life-long friends in campgrounds and camping clubs. Beginning in the 1970s we planned annual treks to the Boundary Waters Canoe Area. The three of us were packed into one canoe, with me and our supplies in the middle. We portaged to remote lakes and set up camp. Living for a week without electricity and running water was never a challenge, as that was how my mother grew up on a farm in Medina, Minnesota. Located just west of Minneapolis near Independence Lake, it is now part of the Baker National Golf Course (Three Rivers Park District).

The Kohnen Family farm where my moved grew up, until they moved to town during WWII.
My mom with her farm cats.
My mom (left) with Grandma and Aunt, c. 1937.
My mom (center) in front of the one-room school house.

My mom began her academic career in a one-room schoolhouse where she rapidly progressed from one grade to the next. This would ultimately allow her to graduate early and start college at 15 years old. She was the first in her family to go to college. Despite her young age, she graduated at the top of her class and was accepted into the oldest and most prestigious academic honor society in the United States, Phi Beta Kappa.

Betty Lou B. Kohnen with her Phi Beta Kappa Key pendant.

She completed teacher’s training at the University of Minnesota’s High School, known as U High, in the early 1950s. Her first teaching position was at Excelsior High School, before she helped establish the Brooklyn Center High School curriculum and taught there in the 1960s. During this time she also completed her Master’s Degree at the University of Minnesota. Her final teaching position was at Northeast Middle School in Minneapolis in the 1980s and 1990s. Although she retired from the Minneapolis Public School system in 2000, she never stopped teaching. During the Covid lockdown, she taught her grandson how to play accordion. This may have been her greatest joy, as she knew her musical legacy would continue, especially after he began writing accordion music. Some of my mom’s final students were part of my dad’s care team; home health aides who wanted to learn how to play piano or crochet.

My mom receiving a gift form her grandson this past Christmas. He wrote an accordion duet that they played together.
The music written for my mom by her grandson, Dec. 2025.

My parents met at my mom’s 16th birthday party. My mom was already attending the University of Minnesota, having skipped a few grades. On the bus ride from Robbinsdale to Minneapolis, she met a fellow student Winslow Wedin. It was through Win that my parents met. My dad and Win had known each other since kindergarten, having grown up in North Minneapolis. My parents’ first date was a bust. The next would not occur until after the Korean War. By that time, my mother was teaching and my father had finished his military service (army medic with a M.A.S.H. unit on the 38th parallel in Korea). Win again introduced my parents and they hit it off this time, soon becoming engaged. The ring went back and forth a few times, with them tying the knot in 1960.

Ray and Betty Lou Wasxzut, 1960.

They purchased a plot of land from my grandfather, who built their house for carpenter’s wages. Never wanting to be in debt, they had the land and house paid off in five years. They would both pass away in this same house sixty-five years later.

Before building their house, my mom assisted her dad with other construction projects. She often explained that the key to helping her dad build houses was anticipation; she needed to know what he would want before he actually needed it. It was her ability to think three steps ahead that served her well later in life as a teacher and musician.

Ray Waszut (left), niece Karen White, sister Rose Waszut Swanson, and Betty Lou Kohnen in front of their home, 1960.

Her love of music not only provided great comfort over the years but funded her college career.  She began playing the accordion at the age of nine years old. As a child, my mom was given the option of helping clean the house or practicing her accordion; she got very good in a very short period of time. By fourteen years old, she was teaching accordion at the Traficante School of Music in downtown Minneapolis.  

Traficante School of Music. My mother took the bus with her accordion from Robbinsdale to downtown Minneapolis to teach at the age of 14 years old.
My mom playing for the Traficante School of Music.
Her Traficante Accordion School diploma, after teaching accordion for four years.

By 19 years old, she had memorized 2500 songs. Traficante even wrote music for my mom to represent the studio on television. Her signature song became Rhumba Encantata, written by Ralph Traficante and arranged for accordion solo by Anthony Galla-Rini. This was the song she would play whenever anyone questioned her musical abilities (usually a male). It is one of the earliest songs that I remember her playing as I raced around the house with our dog, Snoopy.

The song written for my mother to perform.

My mother took master classes with Galla-Rini in Minnesota, learning accordion techniques that she passed along to many students, including her grandson. To put this in context, Galla-Rini is considered by many to be the first American to promote the accordion as a legitimate concert instrument. He was an accordionist, arranger, composer, conductor, author and teacher. Galla-Rini has also become a great influence in our son’s accordion playing and composition.

My mom pictured in a Traficante concert.
The same Traficante Program where my mom played several songs.
My mom performing with the Traficante Accordion Marching Band for the Aquatennial in 1946.

My mother’s love of music and encouragement of young or amateur musicians never wavered throughout her life. I grew up listening to my parents make music with various friends. They belonged to several groups over the years, but their favorite became the Junction Bunch at the Western Minnesota Steam Threshers Reunion in Rollag, Minnesota. This was a musical group that toured to promote WMSTR at parades and regional events. Her personal policy for any musical session was, “Everyone is welcome, and everyone is equal.” She always ensured that everyone got a fair chance to play and that everyone was supported in any attempt at music. I value this lesson more than any other one, as I watched my mom live it daily, especially with children. She was instrumental in the music education of both grandchildren.

Playing music with granddaughter Isa. One of their favorite songs was Tammy from Tammy and the Bachelor.
Making music with her grandson and his friends at the Western Minnesota Steam Threshers Reunion.
Encouraging young kids to come closer and learn about how the accordion worked.
Making music with Aaron at the cabin.

Six days before my mom passed, she wanted to play her accordion one last time. Although she had not been out of bed for four days, was hooked up to oxygen, and weak from a failing heart, she managed to play several songs with the family. On the afternoon of April 28, my mom was determined to leave us with the gift of music. It was an impressive final rally. I had hoped that she would be able to manage just one slow song. Her final concert included “Oh What a Beautiful Morning” (Oklahoma) with Aaron, “Tammy” (Tammy and the Bachelor) with Aaron and Isa, “Halsa dem dar hemma” (in Swedish and English) with Aaron, Isa and Andrew, “I’ve Been Working on the Railroad” with Aaron, Isa and Andrew, “Five Foot Two” with Aaron and Andrew, “Sentimental Journey” with Aaron, “You’re Cheatin’ Heart” (solo), “Four Walls” (solo), “Golden Slippers” with Aaron, “Clarinet Polka” with Aaron, “Beer Barrel Polka” with Aaron, and “Kristiana Valsen” with Aaron.

I was so lucky to have been raised by a mother who filled our house with music until the very end.

We are planning to honor my mother’s legacy with a musical memorial service this summer. Dates and times will be posted here once they are finalized.

Update: My mother’s memorial service will be held at the Pillager Community Center on Monday, Aug. 3, 2026, from 3-5PM. A musical jam session will follow at their cabin. Please email me or call if you need directions or further information. You can also post a comment if you do not have my contact information. Please do not send flowers, but consider a donation to TPT, NPR or MPR.

Here is the video that played at her celebration of life service on August 3, 2026.

Remembering My First Art Teacher

Copyright © 2026 by Wendy Rae Waszut-Barrett

There are moments in your life when time stands still. For me, it was the middle of a snowstorm on the morning of March 15, 2026. I was holding my dad’s hand and telling him how much we all loved him when he took his last breath.  

Bedridden, his quality of life had significantly diminished over past last year, but no matter what life threw at him, he never complained nor showed any anger. He continued to greet everyone with a smile and tell us how much he appreciated all of the help.  Every time we left, he would smile, wave, and then say, “Thanks again! Love you.”  Whenever I think of my dad, he is smiling. Today would have been his 93rd birthday.

Dad’s 88th birthday party in 2021.

A few weeks before he passed, I asked, “How was your day?” As usual, he responded, “Good,” then added “Every day is a great day.” His kidneys were failing, he was having difficulty swallowing, and yet, he could still say that every day was a great day.

Dad at Isa and Anna’s wedding in 2022.

This past month has given me time to reflect on what my dad taught me, especially at the end.  He had absolute trust that I would usher him out of this world with love and support; the same love and support that he gave me my whole life.

I remember leaping into my dad’s arms around the age of four. I would climb up high, shout, “Catch me!” and then leap. The practice stopped when I began shouting “catch me” mid-air without any advance warning. I still remember leaping, full of confidence that he would catch me no matter what. I knew that he would always be there, and he always was, without fail.

My absolute trust in him never stopped; he was always there to support me and lend a helping hand. When I skipped school (for the first and only time), my truck broke down and he was the one I called for help. No judgement, no yelling, just help.

He taught me how to laugh at myself, especially when I screwed up. Over and over, I was told that we all make mistakes and it’s okay to be wrong; apologize and move on. That gave me confidence to try new things as an adult, how to be fearless, and how to accept failure. If I stumbled and fell, he was there to help me back up and move on with my life.

He taught me how to work with my hands, plan for a project, keep a clean shop, and overcome any obstacle that life threw at me. He showed me how to take pride in EVERY project. His shop was so well organized; everything was labeled and in its proper place.

He told me that if you borrow something, return it in better shape than you found it.

He showed me the beauty of nature and why we need to preserve it for the next generation.

He found beauty in so many things, both natural and manmade. Sunsets, clouds, canyons, fall leaves, mountains, seashells, rocks, spring flowers, architecture, motorcycles, and classic cars.

My dad taught me how to mix colors and paint. We gathered flat rocks from the shores of Lake Superior for our projects, our primary subjects being water and clouds; they remain my favorite things to paint.

I spent hours watching him work as a stone mason at the cabin, carefully selecting and placing each rock. He had an unending supply of patience for every project. He taught me how to tuck-point brick at our home. Mortar was tested by cutting into it with a trowel; it had to be mixed not so dry that it cracked, not so wet that it oozed. He taught me everything from carpentry to cement work. He was an amazing instructor, as he first pointed out what you did well before offering any suggestion.

A painting that I did for my folks showing Dad’s masonry work at the cabin. 2022
Dad with his cement mixer at the cabin. This was only used for the big projects, like sidewalks and steps. All the stone work was done by hand.
Dad’s basement at the cabin. He hand dug out the space with an army shovel and ice cream bucket; 18 buckets in every wheelbarrow. All of the work done by himself during the summers.

Treat everyone the same. Appreciate the work that people do for you.

I remember him rushing out to help the garbage man every morning when I was little. They would laugh while emptying the big bins into the truck.  Most recently he befriended the mailman, making such an impression that he asked for time off to speak at his funeral.

Everyone adored my dad because he was always accepting and kind. He saw people for who they were, looking beyond who they loved, their religion, and the color of their skin. He made friends wherever he went. One of his greatest joys was being the official “Hobo” for the Western Minnesota Steam Threshers Reunion every Labor Day Weekend. For a whole weekend he just rode the train and met new people. Best. Job. Ever.

Dad as the Hobo at WMSTR in 2023. He was 90 years old at the time and so happy to be on the caboose.
When the Hobo got to ride in the boxcar at WMSTR.

Each stop on a family vacation was an opportunity to befriend a stranger; whether it was a gas station attendant or fellow traveler, my dad always learned someone’s life story in a few minutes. People immediately trusted him. He taught me how to draw people out of their shell, how to ask questions, and value their responses. He taught me how to listen.

There is so much more that I could say about what he taught me over the years. My dad was an extraordinary man and I will do my best to honor his legacy:

Make new friends every day, be kind, be considerate, treat everyone equally, and find beauty wherever you are in the world. I only wish that more people were like my dad.

Me and Dad at his favorite sketching spot in Yellowstone. 2021.

Here is a link to the video played at his celebration of life reception on March 24, 2026. It features some of his favorite songs.